THIS IS PURE MY OPINION. DON'T LIKE? BETTER DON'T READ!
I
don't know what exactly should i post here, but i just want to write
what i feel toward this couple. First, I'm Eunhyuk biased, hardcore to
be exact. I love him for years already, and i can be so possesive when
it comes to him. So, when their 'sex' photo came out and became the hot
issue that time, i was so angry. i was so frustated. i was so fucked up.
i was feeling betrayed. and because of that, i became an IU hater. I used
to insult her (not in so rude way), i used to dislike whatever she does,
i used to leave my hate comments on her videos, and i even called her
ugly because of that scandal. Yes, i'm rude (i will not deny it btw).
Well in my opinion, it's ordinary for fans to react that way when they
feel betrayed because it's pure to show how angry/dissapointed they get.
Thats what i did. That time i really feel betrayed and i won't lie
when i say i was somehow dissapointed to Eunhyuk that time. But because i
love him that much that i can't even pass a day without looking at his
photo, and admiring him even more, so i ended up expresing my dissapointment to IU. I expressed all my hatred to
her. I blamed her for everything that happened. I hated her to the point
that i just want her to die (okay this is so rude i know, sorry), All
my disappointment to Eunhyuk i expressed to her. All my anger got even
worse when articles about them came out and the netizens blamed Eunhyuk
and claimed him as a pedhopil that time, all my disappointment to
Eunhyuk then faded away and vanished, and as you expect, i hated on IU
more. I hated her because she uploaded that photo. I hated her because
her agency came out with stupid reasons. I hated her for all the bad
comments for Eunhyuk. I hated her because of her Eunhyuk was mocked. I
hated her because Eunhyuk got so many anti-fans. I hated her because
many of Eunhyuk stans left. And most of all, I hated her because She's
his girlfriend (okay this isn't confirmed yet, and i don't know if
they're indeed dating). But as days passed, as i got mature, my hatred
toward her slowly vanished like my dissapointment to Eunhyuk before. If
before i hated her because she uploaded that photo, now i don't hate her
anymore because of it. I don't know if she uploaded that photo by
accident or no, but even if she purposely uploaded it, she got hate too
right? netizens stopped claimed her as nation little sister right? Both
parties got hatred and anti fans. IU suffered as well as Eunhyuk. So i
don't want to hate her because of that reason anymore. If before i hated
her because of her agency came out with stupid reasons, now i don't
hate her and her agency anymore because of it. All agency want to
protect their artist right? So does Loen. I tried to see the bright side
of that. They tried to protect their artist as well with Eunhyuk even
their way of protecting only lead Eunhyuk-IU to get more hate. As in Leeteuk's case,
SM confirmed that Leeteuk's family death happened in home when we
all know they got car accident and reporters even said it was a
suicidal, right? Why would SM came out with that lie when they know that
public are fully aware of the real
incident,
Why? Because they want to protect their artist, they want to protect
Leeteuk. The same condition happened to Leon. They came out with stupid
reason to protect their artist. So i don't want to hate her because of
that either. If before i hated her for all the bad comments for Eunhyuk, now i don't want to use that reason anymore. Why? Because IU as
well got bad comments. And also, every person has their own opinion
either it's bad or good, we can't dictate them to like what we like, what
we love, or what we want. So the reason why Eunhyuk got bad comments
isn't IU, because it's peoples who dislike him' fault. They chose to give
bad comments even they don't know what really happened, they chose to
hate without seeing from other POV. So same as my other reasons, i don't
want to hate her because of this also. If before i hated her because
Eunhyuk was being mocked, then now i don't want to use this reason
anymore. It's all people who mocks Eunhyuk's fault, not IU. And like what i said before, we can't dictate
everyone to do what we want. They do whatever they want so does people
who mock Eunhyuk. They mocked him without knowing him well, they mocked
him just because one photo. Like other reason, i gave up to use this
reason to hate IU. If before i hated her because Eunhyuk got hatred and
anti-fans, then i don't want to use this reason too. It's so lame to
blame other for what we dislike. I dislike how Eunhyuk got so many
anti-fans, but is that IU fault? Everyone has their right to like or
dislike something, and the anti-fans chose to dislike and hate Eunhyuk
just because of one photo, just because one scandal. And again, we can't
blame IU for it. Now i don't use that reason anymore to hate IU.And the last, i said i hate her because she's his giflriend (This isn't confirmed yet, but i think they're). Okay this is so stupid. I must be really crazy to think this way back then. Well is it IU's fault if Eunhyuk loves her? NO. It's his heart who made him chose IU. And as a fan, as a good fan we should accept it whole-heartedly. We should learn to accept the fact that oppas don't know us, that oppas only notice us as FAN, no more than that. And also, oppas need a partner, a couple, a mate that will take care of oppas in the future. We shouldn't be a childish fan. So, can you see my point? Can you see what i mean? If yes, then start to lessen your hatred toward IU or better stop hating on her. Even if you cant accept this couple, it's okay. But please, don't judge them anymore. They're so cute to be judged! Thankyou. xoxo
